After Lop Buri, I caught a train to Phitsanulok. The 3 hour train ride in a comfy seat cost the same as what I'd pay for a meal in Australia, and the train ride came with a complimentary meal and drink. Nice change of pace. The first hotel I saw was right across the street from the train station & cost 200 baht for a room. I had a look at it first and it was pretty bad...no sheets on the bed, squat toilet, peeling paint, I was about to take it because I didn't feel like walking any further in the heat with my big backpack, but then I saw that the shower didn't work so that sent me over the top. I went back to the train station, looked at a map, and found another hotel. On my way there, I saw a nice looking hotel that I decided to check out. The room was everything I could ask for, very clean, fresh sheets & towel, and real toilet. And the price, 200 baht ($6.50), same as the dump I first looked at. Good lesson not to settle too soon.
The next day I went to the local tourist centre to enquire about white water rafting. No one seemed to be able to speak English; I kept being referred to another person until eventually being referred to someone who was there renewing her Visa. Her name was Dolly, a half-Chinese, half-Burmese university professor who's married to a Thai man. She was there with her friends and family, a total of nine of them plus a dog. We chatted for a bit and they invited me to join them for brunch that they brought with them, and I gracefully accepted. We continued to talk and they invited me to come back to their town, stopping at some waterfalls on the way. I didn't have any real plans, and figured this would be an incredible cultural experience, so I gladly accepted.
Once Dolly was done renewing her immigration, we picked up my bag from the hotel and off we went. The ten of us were all in Dolly's truck, a mid-size pick-up, and by using the back box we all fit surprisingly comfortably. They were very kind in giving me the front seat, which I tried to refuse but was given little choice but to accept. We stopped for a meal on the way at a restaurant with a floating deck on the river. There were people playing in tubes, paddle boats and swimming, and our group laughed when they saw an old white guy in a speedo. I liked this moment because it's something that we'd all laugh at together back home; one of many moments where I felt the similarities between our cultures. This might sound like a weird moment to have that realization; but this was just one of many moments where I felt this, and this one seemed easier to describe than some others.
After the restaurant, we continued on to a waterfall, went for a swim, and then went back to their home. I went out on the moped with Dolly's husband to pick up dinner from a vendor on the street. We ate another delicious meal, then everyone went inside to watch a Thai movie that I fell asleep watching. The next morning I woke up to more Thai food. After eating, I received a call from Mel; we chatted for a while & I told her about this experience. Afterwords, some of Dolly's students came over to study English. Dolly teaches English at the university, but it is currently summer break there so she teaches out of her home in the off season. Her students are from all ages, sometimes a 12 year old & 40 year old will be in the same session, and any age in between. I spoke with them a bit, simple sentences like "What's your name?" and "How old are you?" I could tell that Dolly was happy with this, and I was really happy to be able to give back in some way after all the very generous hospitality she had been giving me. As the English lessons continued, I spent some time in the background doing sudoku, which I used to hate but forced myself to do because it's good for the brain. I'm happy to say that my skill level in this has improved and now I quite enjoy it.
After the students left, Dolly & her friends told me about the upcoming Songkram Festival on April 13 and said I should stay until then. I told them I'd love to but I still want to go to Laos and other places. I pulled out my map and we started discussing places to go. Dolly said we can drive to Laos in her truck if I pay for the fuel, which will be about $60. This sounded great to me; traveling in style & sharing the experience with people who know a little more about the area. So as I understand the situation, we're going to Laos for a day or two, anytime now, maybe tomorrow. After that, we're going to come back here and take some day trips to other places of interest around here. Then I will be here for the Songkram Festival, which involves lots of water, and after the festival I'll carry on, on my own. Wow. How did this happen? Thank you whoever made this happen, I guess that means thank you Dolly for being so kind and open to strangers.
After all this discussion, I was sitting out in the yard playing with the dog. Dolly's husband got in the truck, others started following, and then someone said, "Lets go Jake." I got in and had a good laugh about the situation because Dolly was in the back with her dog, no one in the truck could speak English, and I had no idea where we were going. After driving for about 15 minutes, we pulled into a temple out in the woods. From what I gathered about the situation, the person we were there to see wasn't there, so we carried on. Our next stop was at their friend's house, one of the ladies who went on the original road trip where I met them. She married a Scottish military man 2 years ago and quickly became rich by Thai standard. He's in Afghanistan at the moment, but she invited us into her beautiful home for some snacks. We stayed for about an hour and then headed back home.
The home I refer to, where I've been staying, is actually Dolly's father-in-law's house. Dolly explained to me they are saving up for their own home and plan to buy next year. The father in law is also very kind and told me I am welcome to stay as long as I wish. He doesn't speak English but Dolly translated for me. The father-in-law (Papa) runs a small shop right across the street from their home, selling gas for mopeds, snacks, drinks & alcohol. Beside the shop, Dolly's husband runs a repair shop for mopeds. This whole experience has been very surreal. I can't imagine any better cultural experience. I felt a little awkward at first because they were being so incredibly kind and not even letting me pay for things like my meals. Part of me felt nervous wondering what the catch was but I was relieved yesterday when I realized I could help out by having short conversation's with Dolly's students, and I think that makes me a significant asset.
This morning I went with Dolly's husband to a nearby city. He doesn't speak English so I was again a bit confused as to what the situation was. He stopped outside a "Language Centre & Internet" shop and motioned for me to go inside. No one was inside so I turned on a computer. Shortly after, a lady came out who is actually another one of Dolly's friends who I've met. She also teaches English. She made me a nice cup of coffee & I continued on the computer. Soon after, some of her students came and she asked me if I would mind taking 10 minutes to speak English with them. Of course I was happy to do this. Since then I've seen Dolly's husband for about 5 minutes and I managed to figure out that we're in the city having their truck serviced. I just finished lunch with Dolly's friend and am looking forward to seeing what is going to come next.
Tourist office where I met Dolly & friends
Dolly is the lady showing the peace sign
My Thai family's home